Five Quick Tips to Help Your Defiant Child or Teen

The child is always soft, touchy and emotional from their birth stage, every parent has to notice their kid’s behavioral changes at the growing stage say normal attitude, sensory motor skill, eye coordination, communication and social interaction, functional activity, actual concentration, receiving capacity, expression ability these types of many physical and psychological changes give a huge reflection on their developmental stage. Defiant child or teen means a disobedient young kid who do not obey or listen any command from their parent, teacher, advisor or anybody. Always create an unmanageable situation at every step of their life which is very much harder to control. Therefore, this defiant teenager is also called difficult child or defiant disorder. Oppositional defiant disorder is the developmental disorder of personality handle and most widespread behavioral problem. Research shows that boys have suffered with this problem than girls.

Causes of   defiant child behavior:

There is a no specific cause of the defiant behavior, but it depends on some factors.

• •  Heredity is one of the reasons whose father, a mother had carried out this disability and have suffered many mental sicknesses such as physical, psychological and apprehension disorder these leads to their next generation to develop to this odd symptom.
• •  Dissimilar individual quality – such as their personality, opinion, consciousness, terminology, thoughts, curiosity, attentiveness, intensity, system and regulation may be another cause. The environment is a big issue for creating this problem disorganized, violence, messy area, and crowded people are the responsible.
• •  A small portion of brain function with defiant teenage may not work properly compare to fit children, this discrimination segment of the brain cannot deliver the right sign to any activity level.
• •  Neurotransmitters arise from the inequality level of chemicals in the brain function, our child carries this disability.
• •  Untimely baby born is one of the common causes.
• •  If pregnant mom has some habits which are harmful to her baby say smoking, drug, alcohol this may cause the disobedient to our child or
• •  One more susceptible matter is if a toddler’s brain gets pain or accident at the time of his/her mom’s pregnancy period then they will bear with defiant children’s behavior.   

Sign and Symtomps of Odd: ( Defiant Child or Teen)

Studies have shown us  various symtomps and sign of the odd disorder, it mainly depends on individual gender and character also. The pervasiveness of defiant youth is 3 to 4 times greater in the boys than the girls. Some core sign and symtomps are given below that our defiant teenage or children continuously fighting to overcome this difficulty.

• •  Frequently lose the existing mood to bad temper or irritability
• •  Conflicting with others most of the time
• •  Inconsistent behavior and hostility attitude
• •  Tendency to reject to follow any regulation
• •  Throw blame to others and try to annoy all time
• •  Destroy enthusiastically good relationship with close relatives or friends
• •  The problem facing in self-esteem, preparation and thoughtful opinion
• •  Poor performance at school
• •  Frustration comes at an early stage
• •  Low confidence
• •  Feeling negative and unconstructive
• •  Learn from wrong things

Effects of oppositional defiant disorder in teenagers:

The effect of defiance disorder has long time that suffers not only child also their family members. Its diagnosis is not an easy matter because no physical test has available for early recognized  this problem. Therefore, younger teen suffers through a lengthy  process.Some special effects are given below:

• •  Educational problem
• •  Actual manner confusion
• •  Underprivileged message delivery
• •  Low self respect
• •  Abusement problem
• •  Sevior tendency to misbehaviour
• •  Inconsiderate individualism disarray
• •  Socially suffer from  loneliness
• •  Can’t make meaningful relation
• •  Hard to control any situation.

Five Quick Tips to Help Your Defiant Child or Teen: After many discussions and knowing what is the “defiant child or teen” ,“various causes”, “ lots of sign and symptoms” now it’s time to discover five major tips or solution among the lots.

• •  Positive parenting:

Positive parenting is a powerful tip through this parent or other family member can realize and understand to find out their original problem with loving and handle with high care. It means well planned policy or techniques that help our parents to monitor the kids difficulties in giving a sound solution. Parents can counsel with the defiant kids  through huge conversation. Defiant child can smoothly identify the real path, can take the right decision by supportive behavior, feeling confident to overcome any problem.Positive parents only can apply positive parenting that makes our children with odd happier life, trustworthy relationship with others, good performer in every sector.

• •  Learning style:

Every child or teen has his own learning style that he carries with his individual characteristics and capability. It may vary person to person and also depends on some specialization.

A visual learner who receives and gather knowledge through his eye contacts from the frontside angel. That means his or her brain function visually catch all information and doing everything from reading, comments, short letters, drawing, sketching graphs, maps, movies, diagram, chart, puzzles. They saw everything through their imaginative power.

An auditory learner who picks the information from their ears very prompt way  uses a fraction of a second.Each small or big thing can  remember and copy in their classroom, home or another place quickly, sometimes they do not like to give attention to complete homework due to tough discipline. Most of the time they love music,play. Basically, this younger are intelligence based learners.

• •  Kinesthetic Learners complete their learning by hands, they love the sketch, art not serious like the visual and auditory learner.Always like doing their activity through body movement,have lower patience but huge energy can spend by using different parts of the body .Therefore parents should understand clearly what styles basically want to follow or apply their child if they give permission willingly and support them then it would be very easier to accomplish any task willfully.So this technique would diminish the defiance percentage of the child day by day.

• •  Entertainment power:

A parent should be conscious and must use techniques to decrease the loud sound behavior, shouting repeatedly and also crying attitude in every single word.It would be possible by engaging art competition, music school, through practicing various attractive crafting works, making the house, an alphabet with sand, water color etc. Actually, this material tries to calm the younger brain and try to feel the happy mood in their freedom world. This policy really helpful for diminishing the hostility.

• •  Creative therapy:

Children are too little, very tough to know their inner world and feelings. Sometimes they can express their wants, but sometimes they can’t deliver the actual language what he wants to say or not.This therapy helps to discover the defiant children or teenage internal thinking and try to remove the frustration and stress.

• •  Find out yourself
• •  Feeling less stress
• •  Developing various skills
• •  Decreasing the term of loss
• •  Considerate family member
• •  Improving self-confidence and respect
• •  Rising good progress.